‘On the day I die, when I’m being carried toward the grave, don’t weep. Don’t say he’s gone! He’s gone. Death has nothing to do with going away. The sun sets and the moon sets, but they’re not gone. Death is a coming together. The tomb looks like a prison, but it’s really release into union. The human seed goes down in the ground like a bucket into the well where Joseph is. It grows and comes up full of some unimagined beauty. Your mouth closes here and immediately opens with a shout of joy there.’
– Rumi (13th century)

‘How shall I begin my song In the blue night that is settling? In the great night my heart will go out, Toward me the darkness comes rattling. In the great night my heart will go out.’
– Papago Medicine Woman Chant

‘For the moon never beams, without bringing me dreams Of the beautiful Annabel Lee;
And the stars never rise, but I feel the bright eyes Of the beautiful Annabel Lee;
And so, all the night-tide, I lie down by the side Of my darling – my darling – my life and my bride,
In her sepulchre there by the sea,
In her tomb by the sounding sea.’
– Edgar Allan Poe, Annabel Lee

‘Do not stand at my grave and weep;
I am not there. I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow.
I am the diamond glints on snow.
I am the sunlight on ripened grain.
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you waken in the morning’s hush
I am the swift uplighting rush
Of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry;

I am not there. I did not die.

A stone I died and rose again a plant;
A plant I died and rose an animal;
I died an animal and was born a man.
Why should I fear? What have I lost by death?’
– Mevlana Jalaluddin Rumi

‘And thou art dead, with form so soft and charms so rare, too soon returned to earth.’
– Byron

‘I visited the place where we last met.
Nothing was changed, the gardens were well-tended,
The fountains sprayed their usual steady jet;
There was no sign that anything had ended
And nothing to instruct me to forget.

The thoughtless birds that shook out of the trees,
Singing an ecstasy I could not share,
Played cunning in my thoughts. Surely in these
Pleasures there could not be a pain to bear
Or any discord shake the level breeze.

It was because the place was just the same
That made your absence seem a savage force,
For under all the gentleness there came
An earthquake tremor: Fountain, birds and grass
Were shaken by my thinking of your name.’
– Elizabeth Jennings, Absence

‘Grief can be the garden of compassion.’
– Rumi

‘Let me die a young man’s death not a clean and in-between the sheets holy water death not a famous-last-words peaceful out of breath death.

When I’m 73 and in constant good tumour may I be mown down at dawn by a bright red sports car on my way home from an all night party.

Or when I’m 91 with silver hair and sitting in a barber’s chair may rival gangsters with ham-fisted tommy guns burst in and give me a short back and insides.

Or when I’m 104 and banned from the Cavern may my mistress catching me in bed with her daughter and fearing for her son cut me up into little pieces and throw away every piece but one.

Let me die a young man’s death not a free from sin tiptoe in candle wax and waning death not a curtains drawn by angels borne ‘what a nice way to go’ death.’
– Roger McGough, Let Me Die a Young Man’s Death

‘Remember me when I am gone away,
Gone far away into the silent land;
When you can no more hold me by the hand,
Nor I half turn to go, yet turning stay.
Remember me when no more day by day
You tell me of our future that you plann’d:
Only remember me; you understand
It will be late to counsel then or pray.
Yet if you should forget me for a while
And afterwards remember, do not grieve:
For if the darkness and corruption leave
A vestige of the thoughts that once I had,
Better by far you should forget and smile
Than that you should remember and be sad.’
– Christina Rosetti, Remember

‘When you climb out a black well you are not the same
you come to in the blue air with a long sore scar circling your chest like the shoreline of a deep new sea
your hands are webbed inviting you to trust yourself in water stranger and wilder than you’ve ever known
your heart has a kick your eyes have a different bite you have emerged from some dark wonder
you can’t explain
you are not the same’
– Not the Same, Dorothy Porter

‘When you are old and gray and full of sleep,
And nodding by the fire, take down this book,
And slowly read, and dream of the soft look
Your eyes had once, and of their shadows deep;
How many loved your moments of glad grace,
And loved your beauty with love false or true,
But one man loved the pilgrim soul in you,
And loved the sorrows of your changing face;
And bending down beside the glowing bars,
Murmur, a little sadly, how Love fled
And paced upon the mountains overhead
And hid his face among a crowd of stars.’
– W. B Yeats, When You Are Old

‘Loveliest of trees, the cherry now
Is hung with bloom along the bough,
And stands about the woodland ride
Wearing white for Eastertide.
Now, of my threescore years and ten,
Twenty will not come again,
And take from seventy springs a score,
It only leaves me fifty more.
And since to look at things in bloom
Fifty springs are little room,
About the woodlands I will go
To see the cherry hung with snow.’
– A.E Housman, Loveliest of Trees

Song of the Beggars

I.
‘”O for doors to be open and an invite with gilded edges
To dine with Lord Lobcock and Count Asthma on the platinum benches
With somersaults and fireworks, the roast and the smacking kisses”

Cried the cripples to the silent statue,
The six beggared cripples.
“And Garbo’s and Cleopatra’s wits to go astraying,
In a feather ocean with me to go fishing and playing,
Still jolly when the cock has burst himself with crowing”

Cried the cripples to the silent statue,
The six beggared cripples.
“And to stand on green turf among the craning yellow faces
Dependent on the chestnut, the sable, the Arabian horses,
And me with a magic crystal to foresee their places”

Cried the cripples to the silent statue,
The six beggared cripples.
“And this square to be a deck and these pigeons canvas to rig,
And to follow the delicious breeze like a tantony pig
To the shaded feverless islands where the melons are big”

Cried the cripples to the silent statue,
The six beggared cripples.
“And these shops to be turned to tulips in a garden bed,
And me with my crutch to thrash each merchant dead
As he pokes from a flower his bald and wicked head”

Cried the cripples to the silent statue,
The six beggared cripples.
“And a hole in the bottom of heaven, and Peter and Paul
And each smug surprised saint like parachutes to fall,
And every one-legged beggar to have no legs at all”

Cried the cripples to the silent statue,
The six beggared cripples.
Spring 1935

II.
O lurcher-loving collier, black as night,
Follow your love across the smokeless hill;
Your lamp is out, the cages are all still;
Course for heart and do not miss,
For Sunday soon is past and, Kate, fly not so fast,
For Monday comes when none may kiss:
Be marble to his soot, and to his black be white.
June 1935

III.
Let a florid music praise,
The flute and the trumpet,
Beauty’s conquest of your face:
In that land of flesh and bone,
Where from citadels on high
Her imperial standards fly,
Let the hot sun
Shine on, shine on.

O but the unloved have had power,
The weeping and striking,
Always: time will bring their hour;
Their secretive children walk
Through your vigilance of breath
To unpardonable Death,
And my vows break
Before his look.
February 1936

IV.
Dear, though the night is gone,
Its dream still haunts today,
That brought us to a room
Cavernous, lofty as
A railway terminus,
And crowded in that gloom
Were beds, and we in one
In a far corner lay.

Our whisper woke no clocks,
We kissed and I was glad
At everything you did,
Indifferent to those
Who sat with hostile eyes
In pairs on every bed,
Arms round each other’s necks
Inert and vaguely sad.

What hidden worm of guilt
Or what malignant doubt
Am I the victim of,
That you then, unabashed,
Did what I never wished,
Confessed another love;
And I, submissive, felt
Unwanted and went out.
March 1936

V.
Fish in the unruffled lakes
Their swarming colours wear,
Swans in the winter air
A white perfection have,
And the great lion walks
Through his innocent grove;
Lion, fish and swan
Act, and are gone
Upon Time’s toppling wave.

We, till shadowed days are done,
We must weep and sing
Duty’s conscious wrong,
The Devil in the clock,
The goodness carefully worn
For atonement or for luck;
We must lose our loves,
On each beast and bird that moves
Turn an envious look.

Sighs for folly done and said
Twist our narrow days,
But I must bless, I must praise
That you, my swan, who have
All the gifts that to the swan
Impulsive Nature gave,
The majesty and pride,
Last night should add
Your voluntary love.
March 1936

VI. Autumn Song
Now the leaves are falling fast,
Nurse’s flowers will not last,
Nurses to their graves are gone,
But the prams go rolling on.

Whispering neighbors left and right
Daunt us from our true delight,
Able hands are forced to freeze
Derelict on lonely knees.

Close behind us on our track,
Dead in hundreds cry Alack,
Arms raised stiffly to reprove
In false attitudes of love.

Scrawny through a plundered wood,
Trolls run scolding for their food,
Owl and nightingale are dumb,
And the angel will not come.

Clear, unscalable, ahead
Rise the Mountains of Instead,
From whose cold, cascading streams
None may drink except in dreams.
March 1936

VII.
Underneath an abject willow,
Lover, sulk no more:
Act from thought should quickly follow.
What is thinking for?
Your unique and moping station
Proves you cold;
Stand up and fold
Your map of desolation.

Bells that toll across the meadows
From the sombre spire
Toll for these unloving shadows
Love does not require.
All that lives may love; why longer
Bow to loss
With arms across?
Strike and you shall conquer.

Geese in flocks above you flying.
Their direction know,
Icy brooks beneath you flowing,
To their ocean go.
Dark and dull is your distraction:
Walk then, come,
No longer numb
Into your satisfaction.
March 1936

VIII.
At last the secret is out, as it always must come in the end,
The delicious story is ripe to tell the intimate friend;
Over the tea-cups and in the square the tongue has its desire;
Still waters run deep, my friend, there’s never smoke without fire.

Behind the corpse in the reservoir, behind the ghost on the links,
Behind the lady who dances and the man who madly drinks,
Under the look of fatigue, the attack of the migraine and the sigh
There is always another story, there is more than meets the eye.

For the clear voice suddenly singing, high up in the convent wall,
The scent of the elder bushes, the sporting prints in the hall,
The croquet matches in summer, the handshake, the cough, the kiss,
There is always a wicked secret, a private reason for this.
April 1936

IX.
Stop all the clocks, cut off the telephone,
Prevent the dog from barking with a juicy bone,
Silence the pianos and with muffled drum
Bring out the coffin, let the mourners come.

Let aeroplanes circle moaning overhead
Scribbling on the sky the message He Is Dead,
Put crêpe bows round the white necks of the public doves,
Let the traffic policemen wear black cotton gloves.

He was my North, my South, my East and West,
My working week and Sunday rest,
My noon, my midnight, my talk, my song;
I thought that love would last forever: I was wrong.

The stars are not wanted now: put out every one;
Pack up the moon and dismantle the sun;
Pour away the ocean and sweep up the wood;
For nothing now can ever come to any good.
April 1936

X.
O the valley in the summer where I and my John
Beside the deep river would walk on and on
While the flowers at our feet and the birds up above
Argued so sweetly on reciprocal love,
And I leaned on his shoulder; “O Johnny, let’s play”:
But he frowned like thunder and he went away.

O that Friday near Christmas as I well recall
When we went to the Matinee Charity Ball,
The floor was so smooth and the band was so loud
And Johnny so handsome I felt so proud;
“Squeeze me tighter, dear Johnny, let’s dance till it’s day”:
But he frowned like thunder and he went away.

Shall I ever forget at the Grand Opera
When music poured out of each wonderful star?
Diamonds and pearls they hung dazzling down
Over each silver or golden silk gown;
“O John I’m in heaven,” I whispered to say:
But he frowned like thunder and he went away.

O but he was fair as a garden in flower,
As slender and tall as the great Eiffel Tower,
When the waltz throbbed out on the long promenade
O his eyes and his smile they went straight to my heart;
“O marry me, Johnny, I’ll love and obey”:
But he frowned like thunder and he went away.

O last night I dreamed of you, Johnny, my lover,
You’d the sun on one arm and the moon on the other,
The sea it was blue and the grass it was green,
Every star rattled a round tambourine;
Ten thousand miles deep in a pit there I lay:
But you frowned like thunder and you went away.
April 1937

XI. Roman Wall Blues
Over the heather the wet wind blows,
I’ve lice in my tunic and a cold in my nose.

The rain comes pattering out of the sky,
I’m a Wall soldier, I don’t know why.

The mist creeps over the hard grey stone,
My girl’s in Tungria; I sleep alone.

Aulus goes hanging around her place,
I don’t like his manners, I don’t like his face.

Piso’s a Christian, he worships a fish;
There’d be no kissing if he had his wish.

She gave me a ring but I diced it away;
I want my girl and I want my pay.

When I’m a veteran with only one eye
I shall do nothing but look at the sky.
October 1937

XII.
Some say that love’s a little boy,
And some say it’s a bird,
Some say it makes the world round,
And some say that’s absurd,
And when I asked the man next-door,
Who looked as if he knew,
His wife got very cross indeed,
And said it wouldn’t do.

Does it look like a pair of pyjamas,
Or the ham in a temperance hotel?
Does its odour remind one of llamas,
Or has it a comforting smell?
Is it prickly to touch as a hedge is,
Or soft as eiderdown fluff?
Is it sharp or quite smooth at the edges?
O tell me the truth about love.

Our history books refer to it
In cryptic little notes,
It’s quite a common topic on
The Transatlantic boats;
I’ve found the subject mentioned in
Accounts of suicides,
And even seen it scribbled on
The backs of railway-guides.

Does it howl like a hungry Alsatian,
Or boom like a military band?
Could one give a first-rate imitation
On a saw or a Steinway Grand?
Is its singing at parties a riot?
Does it only like classical stuff?
Does it stop when one wants to quiet?
O tell me the truth about love.

I looked inside the summer-house;
It wasn’t ever there:
I tried the Thames at Maidenhead,
And Brighton’s bracing air.
I don’t know what the blackbird sang,
Or what the tulip said;
But it wasn’t in the chicken-run,
Or underneath the bed.

Can it pull extraordinary faces?
Is it usually sick on a swing?
Does it spend all its time at the races,
Or fiddling with pieces of string?
Has it views of its own about money?
Does it think Patriotism enough?
Are its stories vulgar but funny?
O tell me the truth about love.

When it comes, will it come without warning
Just as I’m picking my nose?
Will it knock on the door in the morning,
Or tread in the bus on my toes?
Will it come like a change in the weather?
Will its greeting be courteous or rough?
Will it alter my life altogether?
O tell me the truth about love.’
January 1938
– WH Auden, Twelve Songs

‘Nobody heard him, the dead man,
But still he lay moaning: I was much further out than you thought
And not waving but drowning. Poor chap, he always loved larking
And now he’s dead
It must have been too cold for him his heart gave way,
They said.
Oh, no, no, no, it was too cold always (Still the dead one lay moaning)
I was much too far out all my life
And not waving but drowning.’
– Stevie Smith, Not Waving But Drowning

‘Where have you gone?
The tide is over you,
The turn of midnight water’s over you,
As Time is over you, and mystery,
And memory, the flood that does not flow.’
– Kenneth Slessor, Five Bells

‘Unable are the Loved to die
For Love is Immortality.’
– Emily Dickinson

‘Compelled by calamity’s magnet
They loiter and stare as if the house
Burnt-out were theirs, or as if they thought
Some scandal might any minute ooze
From a smoke-choked closet into light;
No deaths, no prodigious injuries
Glut these hunters after an old meat,
Blood-spoor of the austere tragedies.
Mother Medea in a green smock
Moves humbly as any housewife through
Her ruined apartments, taking stock
Of charred shoes, the sodden upholstery:
Cheated of the pyre and the rack,
The crowd sucks her last tear and turns away.’
– Sylvia Plath, Aftermath

‘There is this white wall, above which the sky creates itself—
Infinite, green, utterly untouchable.
Angels swim in it, and the stars, in indifference also.
They are my medium.
The sun dissolves on this wall, bleeding its lights.

A gray wall now, clawed and bloody.
Is there no way out of the mind?
Steps at my back spiral into a well.
There are no trees or birds in this world,
There is only sourness.

This red wall winces continually :
A red fist, opening and closing,
Two gray, papery bags—
This is what I am made of , this and a terror
Of being wheeled off under crosses and a rain of pietas.

On a black wall, unidentifiable birds
Swivel their heads and cry.
There is no talk of immortality among these!
Cold blanks approach us :
They move in a hurry.’
– Sylvia Plath, Apprehensions

‘Stasis in darkness.
Then the substanceless blue
Pour of tor and distances.

God’s lioness,
How one we grow,
Pivot of heels and knees! – The furrow

Splits and passes, sister to
The brown arc
Of the neck I cannot catch,

Nigger-eye
Berries cast dark
Hooks –

Black sweet blood mouthfuls,
Shadows.
Something else

Hauls me through air –
Thighs, hair;
Flakes from my heels.

White
Godiva, I unpeel –
Dead hands, dead stringencies.

And now I
Foam to wheat, a glitter of seas.
The child’s cry

Melts in the wall.
And I
Am the arrow,

The dew that flies,
Suicidal, at one with the drive
Into the red

Eye, the cauldron of morning.’
– Plath, Ariel

‘I have no wit, I have no words, no tears;
My heart within me like a stone
Is numbed too much for hopes or fears;
Look right, look left, I dwell alone;
A lift mine eyes, but dimmed with grief
No everlasting hills I see;
My life is like the falling leaf;
O Jesus, quicken me.’
– Plath, A Better Resurrection

‘Your clear eye is the one absolutely beautiful thing.
I want to fill it with colour and ducks,
The zoo of the new

Whose names you meditate —
April snowdrop, Indian pipe,
Little

Stalk without wrinkle,
Pool in which images
Should be grand and classical

Not this troublous
Wringing of hands, this dark
Ceiling without a star.’
– Plath, Child

‘Revolving in oval loops of solar speed,
Couched in cauls of clay as in holy robes,
Dead men render love and war no heed,
Lulled in the ample womb of the full-tilt globe.

No spiritual Caesars are these dead;
They want no proud paternal kingdom come;
And when at last they blunder into bed
World-wrecked, they seek only oblivion.

Rolled round with goodly loam and cradled deep,
These bone shanks will not wake immaculate
To trumpet-toppling dawn of doomstruck day :
They loll forever in colossal sleep;
Nor can God’s stern, shocked angels cry them up
From their fond, final, infamous decay.’
– Plath, The Dead

‘The telegram says you have gone away
And left our bankrupt circus on its town;
There is nothing more for me to say.

The maestro gives the singing birds their pay
And they buy tickets for the tropic zone;
The telegram says you have gone away.

The clever woolly dogs have had their day
They shoot the dice for one remaining bone;
There is nothing more for me to say.

The lion and the tigers turn to clay
And Jumbo sadly trumpets into stone;
The telegram says you have gone away.

The morbid cobra’s wits have run astray;
He rents his poisons out by telegram;
There is nothing more for me to say.

The coloured tents all topple in the bay;
The magic sawdust writes: address unknown.
The telegram says you have gone away;
There is nothing more for me to say.’
– Plath, Denouement

‘The woman is perfected.
Her dead
Body wears the smile of accomplishment,
The illusion of a Greek necessity
Flows in the scrolls of her toga,
Her bare
Feet seem to be saying:
We have come so far, it is over.
Each dead child coiled, a white serpent,
One at each little
Pitcher of milk, now empty.
She has folded
Them back into her body as petals
Of a rose close when the garden
Stiffens and odours bleed
From the sweet, deep throats of the night flower.
The moon has nothing to be sad about,
Staring from her hood of bone.
She is used to this sort of thing.
Her blacks crackle and drag.’
– Plath, Edge

‘The day you died I went into the dirt,
Into the lightless hibernaculum
Where bees, striped black and gold, sleep out the blizzard
Like hieratic stones, and the ground is hard.
It was good for twenty years, that wintering –
As if you never existed, as if I came
God-fathered into the world from my mother’s belly:
Her wide bed wore the stain of divinity.
I had nothing to do with guilt or anything
When I wormed back under my mother’s heart.

Small as a doll in my dress of innocence
I lay dreaming your epic, image by image.
Nobody died or withered on that stage.
Everything took place in a durable whiteness.
The day I woke, I woke on Churchyard Hill.
I found your name, I found your bones and all
Enlisted in a cramped stone askew by an iron fence.

In this charity ward, this poorhouse, where the dead
Crowd foot to foot, head to head, no flower
Breaks the soil. This is Azalea path.
A field of burdock opens to the south.
Six feet of yellow gravel cover you.
The artificial red sage does not stir
In the basket of plastic evergreens they put
At the headstone next to yours, nor does it rot,
Although the rains dissolve a bloody dye:
The ersatz petals drip, and they drip red.

Another kind of redness bothers me:
The day your slack sail drank my sister’s breath
The flat sea purpled like that evil cloth
My mother unrolled at your last homecoming.
I borrow the silts of an old tragedy.
The truth is, one late October, at my birth-cry
A scorpion stung its head, an ill-starred thing;
My mother dreamed you face down in the sea.

The stony actors poise and pause for breath.
I brought my love to bear, and then you died.
It was the gangrene ate you to the bone
My mother said: you died like any man.
How shall I age into that state of mind?
I am the ghost of an infamous suicide,
My own blue razor rusting at my throat.
O pardon the one who knocks for pardon at
Your gate, father – your hound-bitch, daughter, friend.
It was my love that did us both to death.’
– Sylvia Plath, Electra on Azalea Path

‘Pure? What does it mean?
The tongues of hell
Are dull, dull as the triple

Tongues of dull, fat Cerberus
Who wheezes at the gate. Incapable
Of licking clean

The aguey tendon, the sin, the sin.
The tinder cries.
The indelible smell

Of a snuffed candle!
Love, love, the low smokes roll
From me like Isadora’s scarves, I’m in a fright

One scarf will catch and anchor in the wheel.
Such yellow sullen smokes
Make their own element. They will not rise,

But trundle round the globe
Choking the aged and the meek,
The weak

Hothouse baby in its crib,
The ghastly orchid
Hanging its hanging garden in the air,

Devilish leopard!
Radiation turned it white
And killed it in an hour.

Greasing the bodies of adulterers
Like Hiroshima ash and eating in.
The sin. The sin.

Darling, all night
I have been flickering, off, on, off, on.
The sheets grow heavy as a lecher’s kiss.

Three days. Three nights.
Lemon water, chicken
Water, water make me retch.

I am too pure for you or anyone.
Your body
Hurts me as the world hurts God. I am a lantern —

My head a moon
Of Japanese paper, my gold beaten skin
Infinitely delicate and infinitely expensive.

Does not my heat astound you. And my light.
All by myself I am a huge camellia
Glowing and coming and going, flush on flush.

I think I am going up,
I think I may rise —
The beads of hot metal fly, and I, love, I

Am a pure acetylene
Virgin
Attended by roses,

By kisses, by cherubim,
By whatever these pink things mean.
Not you, nor him.

Not him, nor him
(My selves dissolving, old whore petticoats) —
To Paradise.’
– Plath, Fever 103

‘But I would rather be horizontal.
I am not a tree with my root in the soil
Sucking up minerals and motherly love
So that each March I may gleam into leaf,
Nor am I the beauty of a garden bed
Attracting my share of Ahs and spectacularly painted,
Unknowing I must soon unpetal.
Compared with me, a tree is immortal
And a flower-head not tall, but more startling,
And I want the one’s longevity and the other’s daring.

Tonight, in the infinitesimal light of the stars,
The trees and the flowers have been strewing their cool odors.
I walk among them, but none of them are noticing.
Sometimes I think that when I am sleeping
I must most perfectly resemble them–
Thoughts gone dim.
It is more natural to me, lying down.
Then the sky and I are in open conversation,
And I shall be useful when I lie down finally:
Then the trees may touch me for once, and the flowers have time for me.’
– Plath, I Am Vertical

‘I have done it again.
One year in every ten
I manage it—–

A sort of walking miracle, my skin
Bright as a Nazi lampshade,
My right foot

A paperweight,
My featureless, fine
Jew linen.

Peel off the napkin
O my enemy.
Do I terrify? –

The nose, the eye-pits, the full set of teeth?
The sour breath
Will vanish in a day.

Soon, soon the flesh
The grave ate will be
At home on me

And I a smiling woman.
I am only thirty.
And like the cat I have nine times to die.

This is Number Three.
What a trash
To annihilate each decade.

What a million filaments.
The peanut-crunching crowd
Shoves in to see

Them unwrap me hand in foot
The big strip tease.
Gentleman, ladies

These are my hands
My knees.
I may be skin and bone,

Nevertheless, I am the same, identical woman.
The first time it happened I was ten.
It was an accident.

The second time I meant
To last it out and not come back at all.
I rocked shut

As a seashell.
They had to call and call
And pick the worms off me like sticky pearls.

Dying
Is an art, like everything else.
I do it exceptionally well.

I do it so it feels like hell.
I do it so it feels real.
I guess you could say I’ve a call.

It’s easy enough to do it in a cell.
It’s easy enough to do it and stay put.
It’s the theatrical

Comeback in broad day
To the same place, the same face, the same brute
Amused shout:

‘A miracle!’
That knocks me out.
There is a charge

For the eyeing my scars, there is a charge
For the hearing of my heart—
It really goes.

And there is a charge, a very large charge
For a word or a touch
Or a bit of blood

Or a piece of my hair on my clothes.
So, so, Herr Doktor.
So, Herr Enemy.

I am your opus,
I am your valuable,
The pure gold baby

That melts to a shriek.
I turn and burn.
Do not think I underestimate your great concern.

Ash, ash—
You poke and stir.
Flesh, bone, there is nothing there—-

A cake of soap,
A wedding ring,
A gold filling.

Herr God, Herr Lucifer
Beware
Beware.

Out of the ash
I rise with my red hair
And I eat men like air.’
– Plath, Lady Lazarus

‘I do not want a plain box, I want a sarcophagus
With tigery stripes, and a face on it
Round as the moon, to stare up.
I want to be looking at them when they come
Picking among the dumb minerals, the roots.
I see them already–the pale, star-distance faces.
Now they are nothing, they are not even babies.
I imagine them without fathers or mothers, like the first gods.
They will wonder if I was important.
I should sugar and preserve my days like fruit!
My mirror is clouding over —
A few more breaths, and it will reflect nothing at all.
The flowers and the faces whiten to a sheet.

I do not trust the spirit. It escapes like steam
In dreams, through mouth-hole or eye-hole. I can’t stop it.
One day it won’t come back. Things aren’t like that.
They stay, their little particular lustres
Warmed by much handling. They almost purr.
When the soles of my feet grow cold,
The blue eye of my turquoise will comfort me.
Let me have my copper cooking pots, let my rouge pots
Bloom about me like night flowers, with a good smell.
They will roll me up in bandages, they will store my heart
Under my feet in a neat parcel.
I shall hardly know myself. It will be dark,
And the shine of these small things sweeter than the face of Ishtar.’
– Plath, Last Words

Wanting to Die

Since you ask, most days I cannot remember.
I walk in my clothing, unmarked by that voyage.
Then the most unnameable lust returns.

Even then I have nothing against life.
I know well the grass blades you mention
the furniture you have placed under the sun.

But suicides have a special language.
Like carpenters they want to know which tools.
They never ask why build.

Twice I have so simply declared myself
have possessed the enemy, eaten the enemy,
have taken on his craft, his magic.

In this way, heavy and thoughtful,
warmer than oil or water,
I have rested, drooling at the mouth-hole.

I did not think of my body at needle point.
Even the cornea and the leftover urine were gone.
Suicides have already betrayed the body.

Still-born, they don’t always die,
but dazzled, they can’t forget a drug so sweet
that even children would look on and smile.

To thrust all that life under your tongue! —
that, all by itself, becomes a passion.
Death’s a sad bone; bruised, you’d say,

and yet she waits for me, year and year,
to so delicately undo an old would,
to empty my breath from its bad prison.

Balanced there, suicides sometimes meet,
raging at the fruit, a pumped-up moon,
leaving the bread they mistook for a kiss,

leaving the page of a book carelessly open,
something unsaid, the phone off the hook
and the look, whatever it was, an infection.
– February 3, 1964

‘Whom shall I call upon, if not him, who is dark and more of night than night itself. The only one who wakes without a light yet has no fear; the deep one, as yet unspoiled by the light, the one of whom I know because in trees he bursts forth from the earth and because as fragrance he rises softly from the soil into my down-bent face.’
– Rainer Maria Rilke

‘Remember me when I am gone away,
Gone far away into the silent land;
When you can no more hold me by the hand,
Nor I half turn to go yet turning stay.
Remember me when no more day by day
You tell me of our future that you plann’d:
Only remember me; you understand
It will be late to counsel then or pray.
Yet if you should forget me for a while
And afterwards remember, do not grieve:
For if the darkness and corruption leave
A vestige of the thoughts that once I had,
Better by far you should forget and smile.’
– Christina Rossetti, Remember

‘Put your ear down close to your soul and listen hard.’
– Anne Sexton

‘Live or die; but don’t poison everything.’
– Anne Sexton

‘I have gone out, a possessed witch,
haunting the black air, braver at night;
dreaming evil, I have done my hitch
over the plain houses, light by light:
lonely thing, twelve-fingered, out of mind.
A woman like that is not a woman, quite.
I have been her kind.

I have found the warm caves in the woods,
filled them with skillets, carvings, shelves,
closets, silks, innumerable goods;
fixed the suppers for the worms and the elves:
whining, rearranging the disaligned.
A woman like that is misunderstood.
I have been her kind.

I have ridden in your cart, driver,
waved my nude arms at villages going by,
learning the last bright routes, survivor
where your flames still bite my thigh
and my ribs crack where your wheels wind.
A woman like that is not ashamed to die.
I have been her kind.’
– Anne Sexton, To Bedlam and Part Way Back

‘Since you ask, most days I cannot remember.
I walk in my clothing, unmarked by that voyage.
Then the almost unnameable lust returns.

Even then I have nothing against life.
I know well the grass blades you mention,
the furniture you have placed under the sun.

But suicides have a special language.
Like carpenters they want to know which tools.
They never ask why build.

Twice I have so simply declared myself,
have possessed the enemy, eaten the enemy,
have taken on his craft, his magic.

In this way, heavy and thoughtful,
warmer than oil or water,
I have rested, drooling at the mouth-hole.

I did not think of my body at needle point.
Even the cornea and the leftover urine were gone.
Suicides have already betrayed the body.

Still-born, they don’t always die,
but dazzled, they can’t forget a drug so sweet
that even children would look on and smile.

To thrust all that life under your tongue!—
that, all by itself, becomes a passion.
Death’s a sad Bone; bruised, you’d say,

and yet she waits for me, year after year,
to so delicately undo an old wound,
to empty my breath from its bad prison.

Balanced there, suicides sometimes meet,
raging at the fruit, a pumped-up moon,
leaving the bread they mistook for a kiss,

leaving the page of the book carelessly open,
something unsaid, the phone off the hook
and the love, whatever it was, an infection.’
– Anne Sexton, Wanting To Die

‘O starry night, This is how I want to die’
– Anne Sexton, Complete Poems

‘And what of the dead? They lie without shoes in the stone boats. They are more like stone than the sea would be if it stopped. They refuse to be blessed, throat, eye and knucklebone.’
– Anne Sexton

‘There is joy
in all:
in the hair I brush each morning,
in the Cannon towel, newly washed,
that I rub my body with each morning,
in the chapel of eggs I cook
each morning,
in the outcry from the kettle
that heats my coffee
each morning,
in the spoon and the chair
that cry “hello there, Anne”
each morning,
in the godhead of the table
that I set my silver, plate, cup upon
each morning.

All this is God,
right here in my pea-green house
each morning
and I mean,
though often forget,
to give thanks,
to faint down by the kitchen table
in a prayer of rejoicing
as the holy birds at the kitchen window
peck into their marriage of seeds.

So while I think of it,
let me paint a thank-you on my palm
for this God, this laughter of the morning,
lest it go unspoken.

The Joy that isn’t shared, I’ve heard,
dies young.’
– Anne Sexton, Welcome Morning

‘All I know is a door into the dark.’
– Seamus Heaney

‘So hope for a great sea-change
On the far side of revenge.
Believe that further shore
Is reachable from here.
Believe in miracles
And cures and healing wells.’
– Seamus Heaney

‘I want away to the house of death, to my father under the low, clay roof.’
– Seamus Heaney, District and Circle

‘Is there life before death? That’s chalked up
In Ballymurphy. Competence with pain,
Coherent miseries, a bite and a sup,
We hug our little destiny again.’
– Seamus Heaney

‘And a soul
if it is to know itself
must look
into its own soul:
the stranger and enemy, we’ve seen him in the mirror.’
– George Seferis

My old friend, what are you looking for?
After years abroad you’ve come back
with images you’ve nourished
under foreign skies
far from you own country.’

‘I’m looking for my old garden;
the trees come to my waist
and the hills resemble terraces
yet as a child
I used to play on the grass
under great shadows
and I would run for hours
breathless over the slopes.’

‘My old friend, rest,
you’ll get used to it little by little;
together we will climb
the paths you once knew,
we will sit together
under the plane trees’ dome.
They’ll come back to you little by little,
your garden and your slopes.’

‘I’m looking for my old house,
the tall windows
darkened by ivy;
I’m looking for the ancient column
known to sailors.
How can I get into this coop?
The roof comes to my shoulders
and however far I look
I see men on their knees
as though saying their prayers.’

‘My old friend, don’t you hear me?
You’ll get used to it little by little.
Your house is the one you see
and soon friends and relatives
will come knocking at the door
to welcome you back tenderly.’

‘Why is your voice so distant?
Raise your head a little
so that I understand you.
As you speak you grow
gradually smaller
as though you’re sinking into the ground.’

‘My old friend, stop a moment and think:
you’ll get used to it little by little.
Your nostalgia has created
a non-existent country, with laws
alien to earth and man.’

‘Now I can’t hear a sound.
My last friend has sunk.
Strange how from time to time
they level everything down.
Here a thousand scythe-bearing chariots go past
and mow everything down.’
– George Seferis

‘He who’s not busy being born is busy dying.’
– Bob Dylan

‘Even at our birth, death does but stand aside a little. And every day he looks towards us and muses somewhat to himself whether that day or the next he will draw nigh.’
– Robert Bolt

‘We all want to be happy, and we’re all going to die. You might say those are the only two unchallengeably true facts that apply to every human being on this planet.’
– William Boyd

‘You can’t get out of life alive.’
– Les Brown

‘The human animal dances wildest on the edge of the grave.’
– Rita Mae Brown

‘I’d rather die while I’m living then live while I’m dead.’
– Jimmy Buffet

‘Tears are sometimes an inappropriate response to death. When a life has been lived completely honestly, completely successfully, or just completely, the correct response to death’s perfect punctuation mark is a smile.’
– Julie Burchill

‘Death and sorrow will be the companions of our journey; hardship our garment; constancy and valour our only shield. We must be united, we must be undaunted, we must be inflexible.’
– Winston Churchill

‘Life is a dash between two mysteries.’
– Carl Gustav Jung

‘I’ve known you before, I’ll know you again; our bond is eternal.’
– Celtic blessing

‘Politics are almost as exciting as war, and quite as dangerous. In war you can only be killed once, but in politics many times.’
– Winston Churchill

‘When you have to kill a man it costs nothing to be polite.’
– Winston Churchill

‘Since the day of my birth, my death began its walk. It is walking toward me, without hurrying.’
– Jean Cocteau

‘Our life is made by the death of others.’
– Leonardo da Vinci

‘Better to die standing, than to live on your knees.’
– Emiliano Zapata

‘Death ends a life, not a relationship.’
– Jack Lemmon

‘However long the night, the dawn will break.’
– African proverb

‘Truly, it is in the darkness that one finds the light, so when we are in sorrow then this light is nearest to all of us.’
– Meister Eckhart

‘Nature does not know extinction, all it knows is transformation.’
– Wernher Von Braun

‘We weep over the graves of infants and the little ones taken from us by death; but an early grave may be the shortest way to heaven.’
– Tryon Edwards

‘Death, the most dreaded of evils, is therefore of no concern to us; for while we exist death is not present, and when death is present we no longer exist.’
– Epicurus

‘Millions long for immortality who do not know what to do with themselves on a rainy Sunday afternoon.’
– Susan Ertz, Anger in the Sky (1943)

‘He who doesn’t fear death dies only once.’
– Giovanni Falcone

‘Death is an eternal sleep.’
– Joseph Fouché

‘Live as you will have wished to have lived when you are dying.’
– Christian Furchtegott-Gellert

‘We who are left how shall we look again
Happily on the sun or feel the rain
Without remembering how they who went
Ungrudgingly and spent
Their lives for us loved, too, the sun and rain?’
– Wilfred Wilson Gibson

‘Death? Why this fuss about death? Use your imagination, try to visualise a world without death! Death is the essential condition of life, not an evil.’
– Charlotte Perkins Gilman, The Living of Charlotte Perkins Gilman

‘Death comes not to the living soul, nor age to the loving heart.’
– Phoebe Cary

‘When we can’t dream any longer we die.’
– Emma Goldman

‘When we are dead, seek not our tomb in the earth, but find it in the hearts of men.’
– Inscription on Rumi’s tomb

‘Often in winter the end of the day is like the final metaphor in a poem celebrating death: there is no way out.’
– Agustin Gomez-Arcos, A Bird Burned Alive

‘Death borders upon our birth, and our cradle stands in the grave.’
– Bishop Hall

‘Do not seek death. Death will find you. But seek the road which makes death a fulfillment.’
– Dag Hammarskjold

‘It’s funny the way most people love the dead. Once you are dead, you are made for life.’
– Jimi Hendrix, Rolling Stone, December 2, 1976

‘War is death’s feast.’
– George Herbert

‘Only the young die good.’
– Oliver Herford

‘Older men declare war. But it is the youth that must fight and die.’
– Herbert Hoover

‘Tis after death that we measure men.’
– James Barron Hope

‘In the democracy of the dead all men at last are equal. There is neither rank nor station nor prerogative in the republic of the grave.’
– John James Ingalls

‘Death is psychologically as important as birth . . . Shrinking away from it is something unhealthy and abnormal which robs the second half of life of its purpose.’
– Carl Jung, January 16, 1961

‘So passes away the glory of this world.’ (Sic transit gloria mundi)
– Thomas a Kempis

‘In the long run, we are all dead.’
– John Maynard Keynes

‘The tyrant dies and his rule is over, the martyr dies and his rule beings.’
– Soren Kierkegaard

‘If man hasn’t discovered something that he will die for, he isn’t fit to live.’
– Martin Luther King, June 23, 1963

‘I told you I was sick.’
– Spike Milligan

‘Watching a peaceful death of a human being reminds us of a falling star; one of a million lights in a vast sky that flares up for a brief moment only to disappear into the endless night forever.’
– Elisabeth Kubler-Ross, On Death and Dying, 1969

‘There is no such thing as death. In nature nothing dies. From each sad remnant of decay, some forms of life arise so shall his life be taken away before he knoweth that he hath it.’
– Charles Mackay

‘A man’s dying is more the survivors’ affair than his own.’
– Thomas Mann

‘Death is a very dull, dreary affair, and my advice to you is to have nothing whatsoever to do with it.’
– William Somerset Maugham

‘…it is only death which is hopeless.’
– Maria McIntosh

‘Men fear death, as if unquestionably the greatest evil, and yet no man knows that it may not be the greatest good.’
– William Mitford

‘We die only once, and for such a long time!’
– Moliere

‘The dead have nothing except the memory they’ve left.’
– Ferenc Molnár

‘A beautiful death is for people who have lived like animals to die like angels.’
– Mother Teresa

‘I desire to go to Hell, not to Heaven. In Hell I shall enjoy the company of popes, kings and princes, but in Heaven are only beggars, monks, hermits and apostles.’
– Niccolo Machiavelli

‘As death, when we come to consider it closely, is the true goal of our existence, I have formed during the last few years such close relations with this best and truest friend of mankind, that his image is not only no longer terrifying to me, but is indeed very soothing and consoling! And I thank my God for graciously granting me the opportunity of learning that death is the key which unlocks the door to our true happiness.’
– Wolfgang Amadeus Mozart

‘From my rotting body, flowers shall grow and I am in them and that is eternity.’
– Edvard Munch

‘Defeat is worse than death because you live with defeat.’
– Bill Musselman

‘Death is but crossing the world, as friends do the seas; they live in one another still.’
– William Penn, Some Fruits of Solitude

‘I’ve been thinking of death a lot, and I am amazed by its inevitability, frightened, as we all are, of the totally unknown, and yet feel a long sleep is somehow earned by those of us who live on the edge.’
– Jackson Pollock, Dear M: Letters from a Gentleman of Excess (1989)

‘As all things eternal and primordial reappear, so all things mortal return to the earth. Honour, old age, probity, justice, constance, virtue, and gentleness are all gathered into the cold tomb.’
– Francis Quarles

‘My grandmother was a very tough woman. She buried three husbands. Two of them were just napping.’
– Rita Rudner

‘Death is more universal than life; everyone dies but not everyone lives.’
– A. Sachs

‘Love makes us poets and the approach of death should make us philosophers.’
– George Santayana

‘Each day is a little life; every waking and rising a little birth; every fresh morning a little youth; every going to rest and sleep a little death.’
– Arthur Schopenhauer

‘They tell us that suicide is the greatest piece of cowardice; that suicide is wrong; when it is quite obvious that there is nothing in the world to which every man has a more unassailable title than to his own life and person.’
– Arthur Schopenhauer

‘Death is one of two things. Either it is annihilation, and the dead have no consciousness of anything; or, as we are told, it is really a change: a migration of the soul from one place to another.’
– Socrates

‘Blind faith in your leaders, or in anything, will get you killed.’
– Bruce Springsteen

‘The bitterest tears shed over graves are for words left unsaid and deeds left undone.’
– Harriet Beecher Stowe

‘Hell and Heaven are near man, yes, in him; and every man after death goes to that Hell or Heaven in which he was, or to his spirit, during his abode in the world.’
– Emmanauel Swedenborg, Heaven and Hell (1758)

‘It is impossible that anything so natural, so necessary, and so universal as death should have been designed by Providence as an evil to mankind.’
– Jonathan Swift (1706)

‘Old elephants limp off to the hills to die; old Americans go out to the highway and drive themselves to death with huge cars.’
– Hunter S. Thompson

‘But what is all this fear of and opposition to oblivion? What is the matter with the soft darkness, the dreamless sleep?’
– James Thurber

‘If I have any beliefs about immortality, it is that certain dogs I have known will go to heaven, and very, very few persons.’
– James Thurber

‘A man does not die of love or his liver or even of old age; he dies of being a man.’
– Percival Arland Ussher

‘While I thought that I was learning how to live, I have been learning how to die.’
– Leonardo da Vinci

‘The dead carry with them to the grave in their clutched hands only that which they have given away.’
– DeWitt Wallace

‘Murder is always a mistake. One should never do anything that one cannot talk about after dinner.’
– Oscar Wilde

‘When the gods wish to punish us they answer our prayers.’
– Oscar Wilde

‘Death observes no ceremony.’
– John Wise

‘All men think all men mortal, but themselves.’
– Edward Young

‘An angel’s arm can’t snatch me from the grave; legions of angels can’t confine me there.’
– Edward Young

‘Our birth is nothing but our death begun, as tapers waste the moment they take fire.’
– Edward Young

‘I live now on borrowed time, waiting in the anteroom for the summons that will inevitably come. And then – I go on to the next thing, whatever it is. One doesn’t luckily have to bother about that.’
– Agatha Christie, An Autobiography, 1977

‘Better to die a thousand deaths than wound my honour.’
– Joseph Addison

‘Death should not be seen as the end but as a very effective way to cut down expenses.’
– Woody Allen

‘I answer the heroic question “Death, where is thy sting?” with, “It is here in my heart and mind and memories.’
– Maya Angelou

‘Death not merely ends life, it also bestows upon it a silent completeness, snatched from the hazardous flux to which all things human are subject.’
– Elizabeth Arden, The Life of the Mind

‘Men fear death, as children fear to go in the dark; and as that natural fear in children is increased with tales, so is the other.’
– Francis Bacon

‘If it’s natural to kill why do men have to go into training to learn how?’
– Joan Baez

‘But, O Sarah! if the dead can come back to this earth and flit unseen around those they loved, I shall always be near you; in the gladdest days and in the darkest nights, always, always, and if there be a soft breeze upon your cheek, it shall be my breath, as the cool air fans your throbbing temple, it shall be my spirit passing by. Sarah do not mourn me dead; think I am gone and wait for thee, for we shall meet again.’
– Major Sullivan Ballou, to his wife, a week before his death, 1861

‘Every time a child says “I don’t believe in fairies,” there is a little fairy somewhere that falls down dead.’
– J. M. Barrie

‘To die will be an awfully big adventure.’
– J.M Barrie

‘Living is death; dying is life. We are not what we appear to be. On this side of the grave we are exiles, on that citizens; on this side orphans, on that children.’
– Henry Ward Beecher

‘I tell myself that we are a long time underground and that life is short, but sweet.’
– Euripides, Alcestis

‘We say that the hour of death cannot be forecast, but when we say this we imagine that hour as placed in an obscure and distant future. It never occurs to us that it has any connection with the day already begun or that death could arrive this same afternoon, this afternoon which is so certain and which has every hour filled in advance.’
– Marcel Proust

‘There is nothing which at once affects a man so much and so little as his own death.’
– Samuel Butler

‘Rest is for the dead.’
– Thomas Carlyle

‘In the stars is written the death of every man.’
– Geoffrey Chaucer

‘Do not fear death so much but rather the inadequate life.’
– Bertolt Brecht

‘It is this belief in a power larger than myself and other than myself which allows me to venture into the unknown and even the unknowable.’
– Maya Angelou

‘He who has gone, so we but cherish his memory, abides with us, more potent, nay, more present than the living man.’
– Antoine de Saint Éxupéry

‘In the midst of winter, I found there was within me an invincible summer.’
– Albert Camus

‘What greater pain could mortals have than this:
To see their children dead before their eyes?’
– Euripedes

‘To fear death, my friends, is only to think ourselves wise, without being wise: for it is to think that we know what we do not know. For anything that men can tell, death may be the greatest good that can happen to them: but they fear it as if they knew quite well that it was the greatest of evils. And what is this but that shameful ignorance of thinking that we know what we do not know?’
– Socrates

‘The hour of departure has arrived and we go our ways; I to die, and you to live. Which is better? Only God knows.’
– Socrates

‘When a great man dies, for years the light he leaves behind him, lies on the paths of men.’
– Longfellow

‘The life of the dead is placed in the memory of the living.’
– Cicero

‘What appeared to me on this side as Beauty will meet me on the other side as Truth.’
– Schiller

‘Many that live deserve death. And some that die deserve life. Can you give it to them?’
– J.R.R Tolkien, The Lord of the Rings

‘Your joy is sorrow unmasked…The deeper that sorrow carves into your being, the more joy you can contain.
When you are joyous, look deep into your heart and you shall find it is only that which has given you sorrow that is giving you joy.
When you are sorrowful, look again in your heart, and you shall see that in truth your are weeping for that which has been your delight.’
– Kahlil Gibran

‘A suicide kills two people . . . that’s what it’s for.’
– Arthur Miller, After the Fall

‘Better to reign in hell than serve in heaven.’
– John Milton, Paradise Lost

‘Time rushes towards us with its hospital tray of infinitely varied narcotics, even while it is preparing us for its inevitably fatal operation.’
– Tennessee Williams, The Rose Tattoo

‘Funerals are pretty compared with death.’
– Tennessee Williams, A Streetcar Named Desire

‘Death – the last sleep? No, it is the final awakening.’
– Walter Scott

‘Men have died from time to time, and the worms have eaten them, but not for love.’
– William Shakespeare, As You Like It

‘Cowards die many times before their deaths; the valiant never taste death but once. Of all the wonders that I have yet heard, it seems to me most strange that men should fear, seeing that death, a necessary end, will come when it come.’
– William Shakespeare, Julius Caesar

‘Let’s talk of graves, of worms, and epitaphs.’
– William Shakespeare, King Richard II

‘Give sorrow words. The grief that does not speak, whispers the o’er-fraught heart, and bids it break.’
– William Shakespeare, Macbeth

‘Tomorrow, and tomorrow, and tomorrow, creeps in this petty pace from day to day To the last syllable of recorded time; And all our yesterdays have lighted fools the way to dusty death. Out, out, brief candle! Life’s but a walking shadow, a poor player That struts and frets his hour upon the stage, And then is heard no more. It is a tale Told by an idiot, full of sound and fury, signifying nothing.’
– William Shakespeare, Macbeth

‘To die, to sleep; To sleep: perchance to dream: ay, there ‘s the rub: For in that sleep of death what dreams may come, When we have shuffled off this mortal coil, Must give us pause: there ‘s the respect That makes calamity of so long life.’
– William Shakespeare, Hamlet

‘Ay, but to die and go we know not where; To lie in cold obstrution and to rot; This sensible warm motion to become A kneaded clod; and the delighted spirit to bathe in fiery floods or to reside in thrilling regions of thick-ribbed ice; To be imprison’d in the viewless winds, And blown with restless violence round about the pendant world.’
– William Shakespeare, Measure for Measure

‘O comfort-killing night, image of hell, dim register and notary of shame, black stage for tragedies and murders fell, vast sin-concealing chaos, nurse of blame!’
– William Shakespeare, The Rape of Lucrece

‘When he shall die/ Take him and cut him in little stars/ And he will make the face of heaven so fine/ That all the world will be in love with night/ And pay no worship to the garish sun.’
– William Shakespeare, Romeo and Juliet

‘And so, to the end of history, murder shall breed murder, always in the name of right and honor and peace, until the gods are tired of blood and create a race that can understand.’
– George Bernard Shaw, Caesar and Cleopatra

‘The possibility of killing one’s self is a safety valve. Having it, man has no right to say life is unbearable.’
– Leo Nikolaevich Tolstoy (1898)

‘Biography is to give a man some kind of shape after his death.’
– Virginia Woolf

‘No man is an Island, entire of itself; every man is a piece of the Continent, a part of the main; if a clod be washed away by the sea, Europe is the less, as well as if a promontory were, as well as if a manor of thy friends or of thine own were; any man’s death diminishes me, because I am involved in Mankind; And therefore never send to know for whom the bell tolls; It tolls for thee.
– John Donne, Devotions XVII

‘The cradle rocks above an abyss, and common sense tells us that our existence is but a brief crack of light between two eternities of darkness.’
– Vladimir Nabokov

‘Life is better than death, I believe, if only because it is less boring, and because it has fresh peaches in it.’
– Alice Walker

‘On a day of burial there is no perspective – for space itself is annihilated. Your dead friend is still a fragmentary being. The day you bury him is a day of chores and crowds, of hands false or true to be shaken, of the immediate cares of mourning. The dead friend will not really die until tomorrow, when silence is round you again. Then he will show himself complete, as he was – to tear himself away, as he was, from the substantial you. Only then will you cry out because of him who is leaving and whom you cannot detain.’
– Antoine de Saint-Exupéry

‘He who has gone, so we but cherish his memory, abides with us, more potent, nay, more present than the living man.’
– Antoine de Saint-Exupéry

‘Boy, when you are dead, they really fix you up. I hope to hell when I do die somebody has sense enough to just dump me in the river or something. Anything except sticking me in a goddamn cemetery. People coming and putting a bunch of flowers on your stomach on Sunday and all that crap. Who wants flowers when you are dead? Nobody.’
– J. D. Salinger, The Catcher in the Rye

‘To die proudly when it is no longer possible to live proudly. Death of one’s own free choice, death at the proper time, with a clear head and with joyfulness, consummated in the midst of children and witnesses: so that an actual leave-taking is possible while he who is leaving is still there.’
– Friedrich Nietzsche, Expeditions of an Untimely Man

‘Tehanu said in her soft, strange voice, “That when I die, I can breathe back the breath that made me live. I can give back to the world all that I didn’t do. All that I might have been and couldn’t be. All the choices I didn’t make. All the things I lost and spent and wasted. I can give them back to the world. To the lives that haven’t been lived yet.”’
– Ursula Le Guin, The Other Wind

‘Life, death, all does end and each day dies with sleep.’
– Gerard Manley Hopkins, No Worst, There is None

‘Ignore death up to the last moment; then, when it can’t be ignored any longer, have yourself squirted full of morphia and shuffle off in a coma. Thoroughly sensible, humane and scientific, eh?’ – Aldous Huxley

‘Our fear of death is like our fear that summer will be short, but when we have had our swing of pleasure, our fill of fruit, and our swelter of heat, we say we have had our day.’
– Ralph Waldo Emerson

‘To conquer death, you only have to die.’
– from Jesus Christ Superstar, Tim Rice

‘The call of death is a call of love. Death can be sweet if we answer it in the affirmative, if we accept it as one of the great eternal forms of life and transformation.’
– Hermann Hesse

‘If the dead were truly to come back, what would they come back knowing? Could we face them? We who allowed them to die?’
– Joan Didion, The Year of Magical Thinking

‘We are imperfect moral beings, aware of our mortality even as we push it away, failed by our very complication, so wired that when we mourn our losses we also mourn, for better or worse, ourselves. As we were. As we are no longer. As we will one day be not at all.’
– Joan Didion, The Year of Magical Thinking

‘He spake well who said that graves are the footprints of angels.’
– Henry Wadsworth Longfellow